“Was there a time you nearly chose differently — said yes to a job, a city, a person, a path you eventually said no to?”

“If you didn't become a parent — by choice, by chance, by circumstance — what has the absence of that role given or taken from your life?”

“What was your wedding day, or the day a great commitment began, actually like?”

“What was your first big argument, as adults, with the person you'd just chosen to live with?”